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Illinois child support – here is something you should never, ever do

Monday, May 6th, 2013

A woman called me hoping to get some advice on collecting child support in Chicago.  She has a court order in place and the father has an arrearage.  He has a background working as a truck driver and allegedly has a place that wants to hire him.  The problem, for him, is that he can’t get the job because his license is suspended due to being really far behind on his payments.

So he wants his ex to call the State and say that he doesn’t owe her any more so he can let his license back.  In exchange, he promises to put in writing that he will pay her the $30,000 he owes her and start a payment plan once he gets the job.

So, she wondered if this was a good idea.

The answer is that it’s a terrible idea.  If they make this agreement and he files for bankruptcy, then he’d owe her nothing and there would be nothing she could do about it.  You normally can’t file bankruptcy to get out of paying child support, but in this case it would just be a private agreement and even that agreement might not be enforceable.

While it sucks for him that he’s in this predicament, my job isn’t to advise him because he didn’t call me.  We always tell the people that call us what is in THEIR best legal interest.  Her job isn’t to look out for his well being.  She needs to look out for herself and her kids.

She was smart enough not to agree to this, but was calling me for confirmation.  It didn’t cost her anything and she was very safe.

If she wants, she can ask the State to temporarily give him his license back to see if he starts to pay, but I wouldn’t do more than that.  And I’d never, ever give up my leverage no matter how much someone tells you to trust them.

Finding the right Chicago family law attorney for you

Friday, April 12th, 2013

If you are like many of our callers, you want to hire the “best” family law attorney in Illinois. Our opinion is that there’s no such thing. There are many excellent family law attorneys, and we believe one of them is the best one for you. But because cases are so different and clients are so different, the best attorney for your case may be different than the best attorney for your friend or neighbor’s case.

Here is what we take into consideration.
1.    Where will your case be filed? Hiring local is important in family law. You want your attorney to know the judges who handle family law cases in your area (or wherever your case is taking place). They also should have a good reputation among the judges and other attorneys in the local legal community.
2.    Is your case new, or has it already started? We will want to know whether you are filing the case or responding to your spouse or former spouse who has already filed. Also, we’ll ask if there are any pending deadlines, and whether the other side has an attorney.
3.    What makes your case unique? We want your Illinois attorney to have experience in the exact issues you’re facing. If you have a tricky custody dispute or if you’re trying to divide the family business in a divorce, we will recommend an attorney who has handled these issues in the past. And we will recommend someone who has handled them successfully.
4.    What matters most to you? Your personal preferences, your personality, and your goals are all important things to consider when hiring an attorney. The attorneys we recommend have different personalities and ways of handling cases. We want it to be a good fit so that you can have the best chance of success.

In order to answer these questions, we want to have a conversation with you before recommending an Illinois family law attorney. If you want our opinion on the best attorney for your case, contact us anytime.

Overview of divorce in Illinois

Tuesday, March 19th, 2013

The first step in getting a divorce in Illinois is filing a complaint with the court. This officially starts the process. In order to file for divorce in Illinois, you must be a resident. More specifically, this means that you (or your spouse) must have lived here for at least 90 days. There are family law courts throughout the state, but you should file in the county where you (or your spouse) live. After you file a complaint, your spouse will be served, which is considered official notice. They will then have a certain amount of time to respond.

When you file, you will have to identify the grounds for the divorce, which can either be irreconcilable differences (also called “no-fault”), or the fault of one spouse (adultery, abuse, etc.). Filing for divorce based on fault does not give that person any advantage. In Illinois, a cheating spouse isn’t punished by the court. The only practical difference is that in a no-fault divorce there is a waiting period – you and your spouse must live separate and apart before you will be allowed to file. The waiting period is two years if there are children and six months if there are no children. Living “separate and apart” doesn’t always mean two separate residences – two people can live under the same roof but be considered separate and apart. The spouses also have the option of waiving this waiting period.

The main issues that are dealt with in a divorce are property division, maintenance (also known as spousal support or alimony), child custody and child support. At first, there may be temporary orders. When you file for divorce, you can ask the judge to make some temporary decisions about your living arrangements, custody of the children, or maintenance. These temporary orders end when the divorce becomes final. The judge’s final orders may or may not be similar to the temporary arrangement.

Property is divided into two categories. Marital property is anything that the couple gained while married, and it is divided upon divorce. It generally doesn’t matter if it’s in one spouse’s name of the other. The court focuses on the nature of the property rather than the name on the account or property. Non-marital property is property that belonged to a spouse prior to the marriage, or anything that was gained by gift or inheritance during the marriage. Non-marital property is separate and is awarded to the spouse who owns it. In some cases these categories are unclear, especially if non-marital property is mixed in with marital property; it can be difficult to separate after years and years of marriage. An experienced attorney can help you sort this out.

The divorce process can be long. Although it’s possible to get a divorce in less than a year, if you and your spouse disagree on a lot, it could be much longer. Most divorces end in settlement, with both people signing a final agreement that takes care of property division, maintenance, as well as child custody, visitation and support. If the parties can’t agree, the judge will decide. Either way, the final decision is pretty final. It’s possible to ask the court to change things down the road, but it’s not easy. You have to prove a significant change in circumstances. And property division is almost always final – a judge will not modify this later on.

Support – spousal support and child support in Illinois

Thursday, March 14th, 2013

When a divorce becomes final, the court may order two types of support: spousal support (called maintenance in Illinois) and child support. Although these two types of support are often seen together in the same case, they are separate issues.

Spousal support/Maintenance

Maintenance is what one spouse pays to the other after a divorce. There are a few different types of maintenance in Illinois. Rehabilitative maintenance is what one spouse pays to the other while they get back on their feet. A common example is a wife who left the job market to raise the couple’s children. If they get divorced, the court may award her maintenance payments until she is able to find a job, or get training to re-enter the workforce. Another type of maintenance is permanent maintenance, which may be appropriate where the marriage is long and one spouse has been relying on the other’s income and is unable to support themselves. There is also temporary maintenance, which is paid while the divorce is pending. Temporary maintenance ends when the divorce becomes final.

The court looks at several factors, rather than a set formula, in determining maintenance. For example, a judge might consider the age, health, education and earning capacity of each spouse. The decision on maintenance may be made with property division in mind. For example, maybe the spouse needing support will receive property instead of maintenance payments. Each case is different, and it depends a lot on the judge. An experienced attorney can help you argue your side effectively, especially if they are familiar with the family law judges in your county and how they tend to decide these issues.

Child support

Child support is when one parent is ordered to make payments to the other parent for the support of their child. Child support can be ordered at the end of a divorce case, or in a case where the parents were not married but one parent is seeking payments from the other.

The amount of child support varies, and just like the other areas of family law, the judge has discretion in making the decision. Generally, the court will consider the financial resources of the child, the financial resources of the parents, the standard of living the child would have enjoyed had the marriage not been dissolved, the physical and emotional state of the child, and the child’s educational needs. There may be additional amounts due, such as payments for all or part of medical bills, school tuition or child care.

The traditional rule is that child support ends when the child turns 18. However, continued support may be required. Some examples are when an 18-year-old is still in high school, or if the adult child is disabled and unable to support themselves or live on their own. Child support for education expenses may be ordered after high-school, for college or other professional training. Educational expenses may include tuition, books, room and board, etc.

If there is a significant change in income, such as losing a job, the parent adversely affected may ask the judge to raise or lower the child support amount. This is not an easy thing to do, and the person seeking the change needs to prove that there has been a significant change in circumstances. Similarly, the parent receiving payments may ask the court for an increase if the paying parent has had an increase in income. It’s important to note that if there is a court order for child support, the paying parent should not alter the payments without permission of the court. This is even true if you lose your job. Don’t rely on verbal agreements – get into court and have the order modified as soon as possible.

When a parent is seeking child support from a non-spouse, they may need to establish paternity before the court will order child support. This can be done in several ways, including a court-ordered paternity test, or a formal acknowledgement of paternity. A warning: signing an acknowledgement of parentage form is nothing to take lightly. For example, if a father signs the form, he will be on the hook for child support, even if it’s later determined that he is not the father of the child. It can be a good idea to get a DNA test to be certain.

Getting your new spouse to adopt your child in Illinois

Monday, February 25th, 2013

A common call for us to receive is from someone who has custody of a child and is married to someone who is not the parent of the child by blood, but is a parent in the fact that they love them, take care of them, provide for them, etc. So the birth parent wants their spouse to adopt their child. The question is, how do you make that happen?

For purposes of this post, let’s assume that it’s a woman who called me and is the mother of the child, wanting her husband to adopt the child. To make that happen, she will first have to terminate the rights of the birth father.

Terminating the parental rights of someone is not taken lightly by the courts because once it happens, it’s not reversible. So even if the Dad has been an absent parent, they will be given the opportunity to come to court and state why their rights shouldn’t be terminated. Of course, if they are agreeable then it’s a slam dunk, but in most cases the Judge will give them the wake up call that they need or in others people come to their senses when they realize the finality of losing their rights.

To get a termination order approved when it’s contested, you need to show how little the other parent has been involved in the child’s life and also that it’s in the best interests of the child for this to happen. Sometimes the other parent isn’t involved, but there family is so everything will be looked at.

Once you get that order approved, it’s final. At that point you can go about petitioning for your new spouse to adopt your child. That is usually a smooth, easy process because nobody can contest it and everyone involved is on the same side. And of course it’s a smart thing to do because if you were to die and your spouse hadn’t adopted your child(ren), then they may have no rights to them after you pass away.

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Do you need a new Illinois attorney?

Monday, January 28th, 2013

We don’t recommend switching attorneys on a whim, but you don’t get extra points for sticking it out, either. If your attorney is not working for you, it’s ok to get someone new on your case. Sooner is generally better than later. It’s a judgment call, but here are some reasons you might decide to change lawyers.

You don’t know who your attorney actually is. If you’ve hired a firm with many attorneys and it seems like every time you call you talk to someone new, it can be frustrating. It also can be a sign that your case is not being given priority. When you hire an attorney, ask who will be handling your case. If you’re not happy with the answer, speak your mind. If your case is being passed around, especially to attorneys with little or no experience, you might want to look for someone new.

Your attorney is handling your divorce and your business litigation and your speeding ticket. Your attorney should have a lot of experience in your type of legal issue. If they handle a wide range of things, such as divorce and business law, they may not be well versed in either. The law changes a lot and you want someone who immerses themselves in divorce law (or business, or DUI, or medical malpractice) every day. An honest attorney will tell you that someone else should handle your other legal matters.

You have to wait a week to hear back from your attorney. Customer service is important in the legal industry. Clients need to be informed about their cases and kept up to date on any changes. And they shouldn’t have to wait a week to hear back if they call or email with a question or concern. If your attorney doesn’t get back to you in a timely manner, it makes you wonder what else they aren’t on top of.

Don’t wait until you get a poor outcome to decide that you should have hired someone different.

Looking for a father’s rights attorney?

Tuesday, January 1st, 2013

If so, don’t waste your time. In our opinion, there is no such thing. It’s just a marketing gimmick designed to get clients. Unfortunately, a lot of people buy into the idea and it ends up working. The reality is that the law is the same for mothers and fathers. There is no law that gives one priority over the other. What you need is a good custody attorney, period.

A good attorney shouldn’t take sides – fathers vs. mothers. Instead, they should represent each client equally. Every case should be about that parent’s rights, regardless of whether they’re a mom or a dad.

Here’s what does matter: An attorney who is experienced, successful, aggressive and compassionate.

Experience matters a lot because the law is constantly changing and because each case has a different set of circumstances. The more experience an attorney has, the more likely they are to have seen your type of case or situation in the past. Even better, they should have a track record of success in winning custody for their clients.

Not every case requires an aggressive attorney, and you might know what type of case you’ll have based on your relationship with your child’s other parent. But a good attorney will know when to compromise and when to fight. They should be able to explain all strategies to you in a way that makes sense.

Compassion isn’t a requirement in all areas of law, but in family law it’s a must. Your attorney should not only be excellent at what they do, but they also should be aware of what you’re going through. They should understand that it’s a difficult situation and treat you with respect.

Don’t get pulled in by slogans and fall for promises made by attorneys before they even know you. Focus on what matters.


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